Comment-dropping is definitely okay! From the description of the story, it sounded like it was f/f between women who were not exclusively gay. I have trouble understanding the problem too, and I'm pretty exclusively gay, so--yeah.

The panel suggestion I ended up submitting was pretty much to have a discussion of how we (for various values of 'we') construct queerness, but there's obviously a lot of ways to go with this sort of topic and I'd love to see any or all of it.